Week 1 Chesed – Love and kindness:

Omer counting day 6.

Bonding – Love (the bonding/foundation/connection side of love) Yesod – Chesed in Hebrew.

In love there are moments of bonding and connecting with the one’s we love, and these moments comes to us in un expected ways, because the character of love has the ability to discern how to seize the moment of bonding and connecting.

Everything you are good at doing must also become something that you are willing to give up, to surrender and to offer as a sacrifice in the time when the love of God for others requires it.

Ask yourself:

Am I always insisting on doing the things I love even when I am in the company of the people that I love?

Am I that type of a person that always wants to be in control of things and never allow those close to me to express their opinions?

Because to bond and connect or to be able to take place in a relationship, there must be a liberty of allowing self expression of ideas, opinion and interests from all the members in the relationship, so that you may not end up doing only the things that you are interested in.

Exercise of the day:

Do something constructive together with the ones you love.

Next: Read the prayer for omer day 6 …