Answer;
Many people define love as a “feeling which makes a person to accept, to be attracted to, to desire or to have a craving lust for someone or something”.

But what happens; when all over a sudden those feelings, (what some refer to as feelings of love), seem to have disappeared, and the only thing that a person is left with is hate, disappointment and anger towards the things he/she loved?

Really; what is love?

Love is a pattern of moral values or principles that are inhabited in within someone’s genetic traits or DNA.

Feelings are like ideas, they come and the go. If someone’s love depends on what he or she feels, then what stimulated those feelings will determine the outcome of his love.

“I love my wife not because my feelings tells me to do it, but beause i want to be faithful to the moral values which upholds the love of our marriage”.

My love for my wife derives from a commitment and determination of choosing to honor certain moral principles, which in return creates the atmosphere of our love.

Feelings can tell someone to insult, misbehave, to fall into infidelity, to cheat, act selfishly, so that one may gratify and feed his self ego. 

There is a saying that says; when you do good, you also release an energy which inspires other to do good in return. When we behave selfishly, we also release that same kind of energy, which provokes selfishness in our environment.

What people are calling love today, is just a bunch of mixed feelings, ideas and influence, coming from selfish business TV commercials, media promotion of violence, sexual perversion, propaganda, antisemitism and the evil motives of political dictators.

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