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In the parameters of free will (democracy) which is promoted by the western culture, Most of the people’s marriages has become a contract that brings together two people for the sake of fulfilling their selfish or lustful desires.


What is marriage?

True marriage is a institution that was began for the sake of exchange, where two people get together to express their moral love for each other. 


A marriage needs a continues input of wisdom, motivational discussions, marriage teachings and moral instructions coming from one’s mentor or moral spiritual covering.

People have professional business advicers, training instructors, counsellors etc, that helps them to maintain their career, And marrige also needs mentorship or spiritual covering which will enable that marriage to maintain it’s marriage status.

Marriages end up in divorce every day because people insist on continuing with their emotional disorders (bad manners) that derives from their individual weaknesses.

You need to have a moral spiritual covering, (people that will play the role of reflecting God’s moral image into your marriage), which will enable you to maintain your marriage, find positive solutions on how to handle the problems that occurs in your marriage, inspire you, upgrade you marriage relationship with your spouse etc.

Today we have a lot of boys and girls in grown up bodies, still misbehaving, having emotional problems, mentally disorders, some come from abusive families, some come from families where their fathers have been nothing but child molesters, thieves, liars, etc.

Other children come from families with weak mothers- mothers that have given them up to prostitiion, tantrum, narcissism “let their children to do what ever they feeling like doing”….etc

This is the psychological status in which most of the people that get married are in.

We have professional people that handle and deal with most the situations which occurs in the different spheres of our lives.

So it is with marriage; you need a moral spiritual covering or mentorship that will impart that image that you want to see in your own marriage…… 

Article written by Ap Ngabo Alex…