Someone once said; that when I made a decision to change, that is when I started to realize that some of my real close friends were also enemies to my change.

On the other hand; I also discovered that there was a part of me which started to cause conflicts so that I may not stay committed to my change.

It felt like as if the decision I had made to change into a better person, was the wake up call to all my conflicts.

But then I remembered my life as a young child. When ever i got sick, mamma used to either take me to a doctor or to force bitter medicine down my throat.

And trust me; going to doctor and taking my medication was a conflict of it’s own.

But because i really wanted to get better, I had to face that conflict of taking my medicine and going to the doctor for injections.

Do not fear and do not run a way from your conflicts, deal with them, and if you have a doctor (a mentor, an adviser, a wise counsellor) who can instruct or inject you with some good wise advise of wisdom as you are going through your conflicts, please take it!

So that you may be able to change your conflicts into your victory. 

Article written by Ap – Ngabo Alex