Proverbs 22:6 (NKJV):

6 Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.

Why is it important to teach & train our children in the positive way that they should follow?

A baby of 1 month to 1 year

– is a very selfish being, possessing traits that are there to feed the baby’s self awareness, (the baby is aware of its need to eat, to control the mother, to cry when ever it wants something etc… )

Child of 2 years to 11 years

– If the child is not well nurtured with positive parenthood, then the selfish traits of the child will transforms into narcissism and thus; making the child to become a narcissist individual.

Teenager of 12 years to 17 –

The child’s character who has lacked that positive parenthood or upbringing, by this stage the girl’s interests and expressions begins to focus on her outer and sexual beauty, music, dance, and social activities which focuses on motivating the sexual outer appearance and self centered passions of that individual will become her dream and desire…

On the side of the boys, making quick money, owning fancy gadgets and dreaming about having sexual relationships with beautiful girls becomes the goals that he dreams about in life…

Youth of 18 years to 25 years – 

The girls at this age (If there has not been any good upbringing in the early stages), she will start to show a strong rejection and resistance towards order, positive mentoring and parental discipline.

And instead- social activities and friendship which motivates and speaks more about her rights, desires and unrestrained passions will become her motivating force.

Boys who lack positive upbringing:

The boys at this stage they have already found themselves role models who can bring out their dream into the state of becoming a reality, which eventually transforms into criminal activities.

Adult 26 years to 39 years:-

Depending on the most practised social behaviours and legislated political policies in a society, that will also become the status or identity that a person in this stage will reflect.

Unless of course if the person in this stage allows himself to be mentored by the positive influence or positive leadership of his time.

The body Matures at 40:-

Aperson’s positive consciousness awakens at the age of 40

People at the age of 40 start to desire to add a brick of value and development to their society or community, due to the fact that; at that age they start to realize how the suffering of others in their society, also affects them if nothing is done.

40 means; to reach the stage where a person is spiritually mature to excel the limitations of his or her negative inherited traits, so that she may be able to recover the spiritual value that a person lost in one’s previous bad experiences.

What happens when a person fails to embrace or never gets to know the mission of his 40th age?

When a person who lives in a society or social lifestyle, where the stage of Youth has been given liberty to exercise their pride and arrogance,

where people are given FALSE democracy  of exercising their wild immoral fantasies, unrestrained passions, intuitions, where social media is used to promote and reward the negative traits of narcissism,

that type of social media or social lifestyle will make those who become 40 years to fear the responsibility of getting old,

And in return; they begin to reject their moral responsibilities, by replacing them with the excitements (pursuit after Euphoria experiences), and as a result the person becomes a victim who is misled by the  influence that the stage of Youth is suffering from.

All over sudden a person who is 40 begins to make decisions that are based on intuitions,

Having craving desires that are passionate in the area of wanting to join social activities which will enable the person to exercise the liberty of one’s self centered passions, making decisions without first assessing the risk zone,

(looking for friends, social gatherings, places of entertainment, which identifies with one’s desire of wanting to be free from all moral responsibilities, so that the person may pursue after her selfish motivated passion of self discovery).

What is the purpose of age 40?

At this stage; a well mentored human being is able to assess the the collective risk-zones in his or her society, and from that assessment he or she can decide to join other organizations or become an organization, business company, positive leader in the society for the sake of transforming those risk zones into something that can benefit the community in a positive way.

Article written by Ap – Ngabo Flimpoman