As long as you are a stepping stone to their success, always being there to make them feel good about themselves, Such friends I also call them “energy suckers”.

Their love for you depends upon what they are getting from you.

They will suck the energy they need from you, so that they may reach the pinnacle of progress that attains to their selfish gain.

As you with them you will notice that;

you will be decreasing while they are increasing.

When you asses your relationship with them, you will realise that the things you are loosing, are the same things that they are gaining.

(you loose your job, they get a new job, your marriage ends up in divorce, they get married, your family falls apart, they get closer to theirs, they influence you into the state of going out with a lot of lovers, while they themselves are lookings for a spouce to settle with, your relationship with them has led you into the state of depending more on prescriptions of drugs and alcohol for servival etc).

The second type of friends:

And the second type of friends are the ones who love you, and at the same time they are also your “well wishers” towards your progress and success.

Those are the friends who wants to see the best of your performance come out of you:

They will care deeply about your well being, when ever you are doing things, eating junk foods, over partying, or doing those things which takes you a way from your healthy state of mind,

they will always advice you and also keep you connected with the truth which brings the best out you.

Friends who are your well wishers will always keep telling you the truth which brings you out of your compromising state, so that you may reach your best performance which connects you to your blessings and success in life.

This article was written by Apostle Ngabo Flimpoman..