Why is it that the people we choose to emotionally give our feelings of love to,

seems to be the same people that make us so angry to the extent where one begins to develop emotions and feelings of resent and hatred?

Answer:

When you love some one you also start to make up false images and unrealistic expectations of who you want them to be,

and because of this strong love that you have for them, you then begin to become disappointed at their behavior that is not lining up with the expectations of your mind.

You should remember that God never gave us the ability to love because of what we want to get out of others, but God makes us to be able to love so that we may express His image out of our character. 

There are two types of love; the first type of love.

There is an emotional love of chemistry that allows people to become attracted (LAW OF ATTRACTION) to each other through their physical appearance, and talents, (depending on how they look, who they are, their status in life, how they act, their religious belief, etc).

In most cases this type of physical attraction can become the process that begins a relationship that will turn into real love.

This kind of love enables people from different back grounds, cultures, religion, nations etc, to be able to have an opportunity to begin a conversation or a relationship with each other.

I call it; the love that is given to someone because of his status (fame, physical riches, humorous behavior, celebrity status, talents etc). People falling in love because they want to fulfill their selfish desires.

Continuation: part 2: The second type of love; upgrading the love of selfishness into real love. The love which goes beyond our own expectations…